Destination Memory: I Already Told You About This?
Have you ever realized or been informed that the person you are talking to has already heard the joke or story you are telling? You are not alone. Destination Memory – defined as the ability to...
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The Husband and Wives Club – An Interview with Author, Laurie Abraham (Part 2)
In the last blog (Part 1) we began our interview with Laurie Abraham, author of The Husband and Wives Club: A Year in the Life of a Couples Therapy Group. Here we continue and ask Laurie about the...
View ArticleCan No-Fault Divorce Actually Help Marriages?
On August 15, 2010 Governor Patterson signed the no-fault divorce bill making New York the 50th and final state to adopt no-fault divorce. What that means is that on October 15, 2010 a spouse who wants...
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Transactive Memory For Couples
With increasing longevity we have become very concerned about the impact of old age on memory. Notwithstanding the importance of this focus, it is worth remembering that we have been forgetting all...
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Improve Your Relationship: Know When It is Best Not to Say Anything!
Whether you have just begun dating or you are celebrating a Golden Anniversary, most partners are aware that communication is a crucial component in relationship happiness and satisfaction. Most...
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The Burden of The Perfect Partner: A Closer Look
If you are looking for the perfect partner or trying to be one – think twice. Perfection is painfully unrealistic for individuals and emotionally costly for couples. While there is no doubt that...
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Are You Invalidating Your Partner – Without Realizing It?
Probably the hardest things to change are the things we don’t realize we’re doing – like invalidating our partner. Thanks to a plethora of self-help books on relationships, most partners, whether...
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‘Friends With Benefits’ or Friends With Complications?
According to the urban dictionary, ‘friends with benefits’ are defined as “Two friends who have a sexual relationship without being emotionally involved.” Wait a minute… didn’t someone say that once...
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How Different Are the Private and Public Versions of Your Relationship?
Almost everyone has felt the shock of hearing that a couple that seemed “so great together” was breaking up. It can also be just as shocking to observe the public interaction of a couple only to...
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Why Do Married Women Have Affairs?
We have once again been faced with a high profile marriage scandal. This time the lovers included the CIA director, a married and much decorated military officer and his biographer, a married women,...
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An Asset to Couple Intimacy: The Capacity “To Be Alone”
While the definition of intimacy may vary depending on the relationship, it is generally felt to be the “ authentic” connection between two people. As such, the connection reflects a mutuality of...
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Positive Support in a Successful Marriage:New Findings
Recently the American Psychological Association reported the latest findings on what makes love last in a marriage. The results of one series of studies by Shelley Gable and colleagues were...
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When Couples Stop Talking: Reasons and Remedies
Most couples know the positive sounds of silence–the mutual experience of sharing time and space together without needing words. Be it walking the dog together, cooking side by side or listening to...
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An Unrecognized Reason That Married Men Have Affairs
Evolutionary theory, gender differences, stereotype, media myth and cultural expectations invite us to recognize that men have more sexual desire than women both in frequency and intensity, are wired...
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In a Relationship-Love Means Being Able to Say “NO”
Can you say NO to your partner? Can you tolerate hearing NO? In a relationship, the freedom to say NO may be one of the most important dynamics your share. If there is no space for NO, there really is...
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